I'm glad they want you to stay!

Idk about your t. Like, I don't like that he asked you to make something for his wife, but you handled it, and then he offered to sell more. By dual relationship standards, that might be bad - but I don't think he means to profit from it.

I guess what I'm asking is - could you have said no to him when he wanted you to say your stuff in group? What would have happened if you had? Have you talked to him about it? Talking about it tonight without warning him is something I would do - totally burning bridges; ruthless like my mother. Well, would have done in the past. I don't know if I've burned any new bridges lately. I just try to stay off the roads

ETA: Like when he was bugging you to do all those expensive retreats and you finally said, what part of I'm broke don't you understand?? He gets it when you tell him directly. I hate having to be SO DIRECT with my t, but I'm getting better at it.