In my best mumsy voice, "now I'll have none of that nonsense young lady"! In all seriousness tho, I think that's your hurt speaking. You've been hurt and its totally understandable.

You've hit the nail on the head tho, you've too much time to think about him. So what's the answer? Distraction, get yourself busy! It doesn't do anyone any good to cyber stalk as it keeps the pain alive.. and can I be honest? The man is just not worth this feeling bad, feeling bad about yourself. No man is worth this, especially one who treated you rotten. Please let him go - he doesn't deserve another moment of your thoughts and effort.

Please be kind to yourself - and no life? Now's the time to get out there and make one.

Hugs.