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Originally Posted by RDMercer
Buy Gottman's 'What Makes Love Last" and read the section on porn. Give it to him to read. Suggest to him that another man that watched porn read this, saw the degree of pain it was causing his wife, and stopped.
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appreciate that, RD. I will check that out. I do notice that now and then, when I go all out, w appearance, food, house, attitude, technique etc., especially when I vary something here and there, he responds usually very well and says it's much better than porn. But I can't possibly keep this up on a consistent basis, maybe weekly, or little changes now and then! Thanks, I'll check out the book!