No worries, Hankster.

With the person that was threatening in group, I can't imagine it would be helpful for him to know that T was encouraging me to confront him and to tell him that his behavior was unacceptable, etc. Especially since I know that he is seeing T individually and I'm sure the T he sees in session would never say such a thing to him. He has to be all empathetic and understanding - all while telling me to confront him. The whole thing just seems so inauthentic to me at the moment.