MUE... I'm sorry this is such a confusing situation for you. I don't know what would be best for you but for me... going to the group and getting to have a final session and getting to say goodbye to the group woud be helpful. And for me it would elimiate all of the what ifs.

My H goes to group T and he had to sign a contract and it has protocol for how you have to end group. I don't know if that is standard procedure in groups or not.