I was married for some thirty eight years to a wonderful woman.
I had everything a man could want but over time, the challenges that I had to deal with wore me down and my ex-wife and I grew slowly apart in our relationship. Like u, we were arguing all the time about some of the most mundane things. I became angry at her and she began to love me less and less.She even went so far as to say to me how I would live alone on my own. That really hurt me as a man and was a clear indication that our marraige was in deep trouble.
Anyway, On your points regarding what u should do I offer the followign advice:
U say...
Do I stay and see what happens?
My answer...
If you're not happy, leave.
U say...
Do I move in the guest room for a while?
My answer...
Yes. Being in the presence of each other will only make matters worse.
U say...
Do I pack my bags and leave for a friends house?
My answer...
If u trust your friend then go for it.
And my answer to ur last question...
Yes, file for a legal separation for insurance purposes. That's a necessity.
Hope this helps u and good luck either way.,
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Originally Posted by Rhapsody
I finally had the big "D" talk with my husband of 30 years because I feel that we no longer work together, have become two very different people, have grown apart, fight to much, and just clearly do not like each other as we need to even though we care for one another......... NOW WHAT?
Do I stay and see what happens?
Do I move into the guest room for a while?
Do I pack my bags and leave for a friends house?
Do I file for a legal separation for the time being to keep insurance?
..... I am numb and lost.  |