Yes, darkheart, I think she was definitely too excited that's why she came across as pushy.

And Roadie, I just texted her and told her WHY I wasn't coming. I was feeling bad about being in a cramped apartment that was in the process of being moved. Yes the move was planned but she was supposed to be settle since the 1st.

She has a history of being pushy. but I don't think she is a bully. She has a history of people letting her down and that is why she comes across that way. I can understand that now. This is a friend worth keeping so I am going to try my best to remedy this.

Thanks for responding everyone!