life is so finicky sometimes. the people on this site don't even talk to me. the people in real life are sometimes even worse. they just ignore you. you wish you had someone to talk to about all your problems, but the more you talk about them the more you drive them away. dude, what kind of friends are they if they are not willing to listen and be problem solvers? all they ever say is hmm-mmm. is that all you can offer as advice?