Dear Magnate,
I believe IRW stands for "In the real world."

Dear Davis,
Unfortunately, the only real world group that is ONLY for BPD that I know of, was meeting regularly in Victoria, British Columbia, Canada. Here's more on it:
http://bpdsupportgroup.wordpress.com
I certainly wish there were more. If anyone knows of any, let us know!

Just in case you haven't yet checked it out, another hopefully good but big ONLINE mutual support group to check out, is...
"Welcome to Oz" listed among other groups at:
Online Communities - BPD Central

Take good care & hope,

- Ed

http://www.selfhelpgroups.org