Hi allimsaying..I am sorry to learn of the passing of your Mother, only because of the additional grief that you are having to endure because of your family members..unfortunately this happens to lots of families. My family just went through this back last November with my grandmother. I firmly believe that to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord..I feel strongly that both of them are better off now..it doesn't make it any easier to let go by any means..I just don't like when family members cause problems that are really unnecessary at this time...People need to come together and stay close, in order to deal with their loss...May God bless and keep each and every one of your family and friends.....♥