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Originally Posted by jane1111
He also has a friend that he used to sleep with(she's nice, she draws boundaries and I trust her more than my boyfriend), we hung out together a couple of times, and he flirts with her which I didn't mind, and only made one request, don't kiss her in front of me. He appeared sorry and apologetic, saying he didn't know that would upset me. Then one week later when we hung out, he did it again. When I confronted him, he said he's sorry that he got the wrong idea of my words.
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Did you speak in a language in which he is not fluent?..
Don't kiss somebody in front of me is a clear instruction/request that is not open to interpretation, so he cannot claim getting a wrong idea of your words. Had you said "do not flirt", which is open to interpretation, it would have been different, but "do not kiss her in front of me" is straightforward.
It seems that he can possibly be one of many if you are prepared to overlook some faults and flaws, but I fail to comprehend what went into your head when you decided to have an exclusive relationship with him.