Hi,
I need someone to help me in this. I am an asian and before when I was about 28 years old while studying in Europe made some contacts with hookers. 3 of them to be exact. We had sex on a pay basis – like usual. The third time with the third girl was just a handjob. I think she was not satisfied with me because of my bad look or because of my height (I am just 165 cm) that she refuse to have sex like usual. Can anyone help me in this? I need to know from your societies’ (the American and hopefully the European too) point of view whether the third time is counted as sex or not? I need to explain this to my future wife that I am going to marry. In my country as long as one does not do it anymore that is considered as that man is turned already to the better. That’s positive. However due to the tv and influences from the western world, my society is also turning their view on things... I need to know this information because then I can prepare my self if smthg accidentally pops out of my mouth.
Another thing what would you say to me assuming you know about this.... For your information, I got interested in them because I was having so much stress finishing my Masters and also due to the fact that it is some sort of a taboo for me and my family everything that has got to do with sex.

Thank you guys for the replies....