I would consider refusing to treat a condition abusive, yes. Though it can be a complicated matter and not everyone will see it the same way. I know someone who refused to treat their kid because the treatments were making his life harder and distressing him, that I wouldn't consider abuse so it does depend on situation.

I guess the more important question is how you feel about it. Do you feel like you were abused, and if so how does that affect you now?

All the best, and I hope you find the answers you need.

Milli

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