I think it is about focus; you focus on your dreams, you remember more of them; you decide you like red cars, all the cars on the road are red :-) My husband and I did that; he doesn't like pseudo-red cars, just bright red, real red, nicknamed the other shades "putred" (instead of "putrid") and we started seeing a zillion different shades of red cars!

I think when I'm seeing T I want difficulties and challenges so I can learn to deal with them?