Hermit, thank you. I do apologize often and I totally feel like a burden. My H is a very over the top person. He has huge hang ups about being lied to. I get no one wants to be lied to, but for him it is more of a "He Forbids Someone Lie To Him" or it is over. Our kids, me, employees, family, or anyone. He is not the most forgiving individual. His words say he has forgiven, but his body language says other wise. When he is tired and just to exhausted to lie, or sugar coat things, he is very honest and then the real individual comes out.

For me personally I am just to blond to keep up w/ a lie, and I am such a people pleaser that I can soften even the uglyest truth.