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Old Jun 05, 2013, 03:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Arethusa View Post
...you constantly need validation that your significant other really truly cares for you.
Yeah, this is totally me. I don't even know how to ask for it either, or even if she should have to deal with my insecurities.

When I want to be cared for and don't get it (enough), I close off towards her and want to not like her anymore. Maybe it is just my way of coping with my bottomless desire for validation and need to feel cared about.
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