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Old Jun 05, 2013, 08:57 PM
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Originally Posted by mixedup_emotions View Post
I don't want him turning into a monster in my eyes. I know he doesn't deserve that after all the good work we've done over the years. But, I also need to face the reality that if we can't overcome this hurdle, I have to do what's healthy for me. And that's scary.
It's OK to hate your T. Really, it is.
It was a hard lesson for me to learn, but once I accepted that hating was allowed, I felt much better.

I have learned that it is quite normal to love someone and hate them at the same time. There's no contradiction there at all.
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Add that to your tattoo, Baby!
Thanks for this!
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