I was there with work and school for a while. It puts a strain on things. I mainly thru myself into it because I wanted to feel better about myself and I wanted to make a nice living. It put a major strain on my marriage.

My advice is to try and stay connected. Them working may or may not be neccessary but try to carve a little time out of the day to spend with each other. Maybe that is a lunch, or maybe it is holding each other for a while after work. Try to talk to them and make some time for eachother. I didn't do this a lot of the days and I regret it. I put her on the side burner because I was preoccupied with studying or working or going to school and it left her feeling pretty neglected. If I could change things now I would. That is my advice. Keep some open communication and let them know you want some affection and or attention.