I might try to see if it's an option, but I don't believe she would take me on as a client considering the circumstances. She works for him and her office is right next to his. It may complicate things in her situation and I'd imagine it would be difficult for me to run into him if things end badly - or I wouldn't feel safe knowing that one wall in her office is shared with his.

When I asked to come in to see her, she suggested a phone call instead to avoid awkwardness. Maybe that was for my sake. Also, she has been sending me links to other places that she feels would be helpful, giving me the sense that maybe my issues are not her specialty. But I could be off base. I won't know unless I ask.

If things do end badly, I will ask her if she can be my interim T for a while during my process of looking for a different solution...and who knows? If that seems to work, then it could be something we could continue.