it was yesterday- but I told s/o a phrase he started using, was triggering me and asked if he could refrain from using it... sorry but "i will leave you now" doesn't sound good to say to someone going through a hard time... and he cares enough that he understands and will try not to say it again. sorry if this is me being "controlling" and meunable to adapt, but i just don't need the message over and over again of "I will leave you"