I can't even imagine the pain that she is in right now, but I will certainly pray for them buttr!

I have never been a mother but maybe you two could get together and come up with some ideas to help her daughter remember her mom. Maybe decorate a shoe box and put some of her favorite things in it, or a collage with pictures on it? Make some cards to send to her every week? Maybe get some beads and make a bracelet for her to wear?