Well, after we year of being separated I am working on my divorce papers!! I have very mixed feelings as bout this but it has been a long time coming-!!! We were separated for 18 months before and I was stupid enough to try again but I had to for our12 year old son!!! I know that I am doing the right thing but why does it hurt so much?? This stinks!!!! well, if nothing else I have a beautiful 12 year old son that I wouldn't change for anything!!-!