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Originally Posted by emanuelabianca
Thank you! :-) Oh, sorry to hear that. I know that not communicating with your parents too much can affect, sadly. Well, I always get into fights with him because I know I've changed since I left high-school, Yup, what annoys me is when things are obvious and he's like: I won't say that you're right even when you are. You're my daughter, I'm the man of the house etc...I've never asked for taking my ideas into consideration, only to be accepted. Poor mom often looks at us, but can't help too much when two stubborn persons are fighting. He's afraid 'cause now I have more courage and that I might disrespect him one day. Like I ever wanted to do that, I could've been the shame of the family long time ago.
I'll try to find a job, but during summer. At least maybe I'll have my money and won't need to ask him for it. He wasn't so sure if he should let me study at this college I'm at right now, but he did it anyway. We'll see what this brings, but hopefully I'll go and study music again.
I often try to explain him, but he understands more when he sees my results or when he hears of me from other people.
I know the biggest impact on our lives have childhood and parents. When other people talk silly things about me it just doesn't bother me at all. I just don't like being told about past and how I used to be "back then" by my parents and so on.
I hope at least he'll appreciate your efforts someday. Take care. God bless!
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yeah sometimes it's very awkward how i cant talk with my dad, my brother never really talk to him too, sometimes they both argue, or fight a lot, just like you & your dad.
It feels good when we making our own money, but unfortunately sometimes we dont spend it wisely, hehe, sounds like me tho. Are you studying music right now? Or you're planing to study music?
You know, when i graduate from high-school, i told my parents that i want to study music! I became a music-addict since i was in 6th grade, i started to play drums in 7th grade, a year later switch to guitar till now. I really want to study music not just from playing music, but everything inside music, like every single thing. It's my dream since i was teenager. But my parents let me down. Now music is just a hobby. I told you earlier that my first job as a cashier / clerk, well it was in a music store!! How poor, my dream is to study music but i ended up being a cashier / clerk in a music store
I have other less or equal desire to study besides music, but my parents always said "NO" to my options. Oh well.
Yes hopefuly someday my dad will finally appreciate my efforts. You too take care and good luck.