Well done for telling someone. I know exactly how hard it can be and what you mean by it isn't just that 'simple' to tell someone. I have recently confided in someone I work with that I am self harming again after stopping for six years and that was really tough. I tried to be a bit cryptic about it and gave up and just blurted it out. Now they know, I find it easier to talk to them about it and they are looking out for me and helping me to get help.

From my experience, it is best if you are able to tell your mum without her finding out another way. My folks found out by accident when I hadn't covered my arms enough when they came round my house unexpectedly. It was really not the way I had wanted them to find out but they were supportive. I just wish I had had the opportunity to tell them on my terms, when I wanted to and how I wanted to.

Stay strong and take care,

Mad x