I know I'm fairly new on this site but what you wrote is the same way I feel. I always get rejected for being "Too Nice" and girls leave for guys who abuse them and cheat on them and say they love him. I told my counselor I can't stand spending another night alone. October 2nd 2002 I overdosed on pills and alcohol and left a notr saying if I can't know live I don't want to live. I've been trying the past few months to meet someone but I get same answer, Your nice,your sweet but no thanks...its frustrating I had to admit myself to hospital again after 8 years away from 1. I went in a couple weeks ago before taking pills not for me but I thought about how it would affect others. When I git home I found out mire people came to my apt.when they thought I was dead. No one comes now and u always go out of my way to write,call,text and visit others especially when there down . I'm sorry I wrote a lot I just read what you wrote and wanted to let you know I feel the same way...its a struggle everyday. I guess we gotta try to stay strong and do our best to get thru another night alone that's why I joined this site because in a way people like us are not alone. We got,we need,each other for support even to get through 1 mire night. Thanks