I've been married for 3 years. I'm only 33 and my wife is 30, we both use to be extremely sexual but for the past couple of years she's not wanted to have any intimacy in our relationship. She even told me that she loves me more than anything but that she's so repulsed by being intimate with me that she can't even force herself to as much as open mouth kiss me. She will pop kiss me on occasion if I sneak one in before bed. That's another thing, we haven't slept in the same bed since our first year of marriage. Anytime we talk about it she tries to make me feel bad by telling me I'm disgusting and a pervert. It's hurt my feelings so bad and completely destroyed my self esteem. I use to be so confident and productive but now I feel worthless and can't get anything done because my mind is constantly corrupted by this. I usually just go along with it and don't put any pressure on her in hopes that she'll one day come around but it's killing me.