That sounds like something my very insensitive mother would say to me. Though I am struggling now, I had just over 2 years of GREATNESS a year after my diagnosis. I found a balance between work, fun, and counseling went to DBT and learned a lot of coping skills that I never had but many other people naturall learn through childhood. DBT was very expensive and if you're not able to afford it I highly suggest workbooks grounded in DBT - they are fantastic.

I know it sucks now, I am right there with you. But don't give up.