Well, I called him Seliger and he's Seligman I've been really tired.

I think, for what little I know for sure that positive psychology ...may I say "ignores" the disordered part of us, and promotes the good and strong traits to make them better and stronger?

It appears that... though they seem to be connected because of the positive outcomes (it must be unconscious?) there isn't any real connection on the surface.

I am doing a project that causes me to look for and promote and enjoy good news from others and in my own life. That's it. However, it seems to have balanced something inside that is allowing me to work through this stressful time (let me TELL YA!) with the painter.

Now, the painter. I think I would place an L on his forehead. Sorry. I don't give up on many ppl... but he has something wrong... it could be just he's a slackard, and expects others to fill in the gaps. I didn't do that and he became miffed at me... then he tried to side up to me for more advance money...but I knew what he was doing and cut him short... no way.. you ruined that when you didn't show up and keep your bargain on Sunday.. From that he threw everything into the back of the garage, some behind my car and left. I had to move it, clean up the open paint, paint brushes, pan, roller.. you name it.. and I'm on bedrest for a day He's lied to me several times, and I let him know one or two at the time, didn't bother with the others. He always has an excuse (he leaves the gate open, which I've asked many times not to, as I let my deaf dog out into the back yard// how do you call a dog from the street if he can't hear you??)
I think he might be on drugs... it would fit his demeanor. IDK if the girl is. There's a limit I can do.

I did end up leaving amessage for T, even though I saw him today again. If I weren't seeing him yesterday and today, things would not be so good in my life handling this, but he is promoting the Positive Psychology with me...and very supportive.

Whew! Verbage!

I have a major project to present tomorrow and all I can do is gather the materials available... and act organized. Tomorrow I will see if I can do the acting.