If I want him to spend less time with his friends, then I don't want him to have a social life. To all you married folks here, how many days a week is acceptable time with your friends away from your spouse? 1 day? 2 days? 3 days? 4 maybe? Or is it 7 days? Because for him it is 7 days, and on those days for more than 6 hours every day. I am not to make friends with these people myself, even though they supposedly say I am nice. He wants me completely separate from them. I am not included or invited. Can you see maybe WHY I am paranoid that they are all talking about me and putting me down and making fun of me behind my back???