Hi takinganewpath
I have been a teacher for some 28 years now and just today i was thinking to myself that definetely you can be a blockhead since a very early age and i don't know who or what can make them change.
I've had very few students whose behavior resisted to any attention, love and caring and just continued to be their hard, presumptuous selves.
I don't do miracles, especially for people who don't want any because they think THEY are perfect and they that the rest of the world should adapt to them.
My mother was a Nanny too, for some time, and she had one of those 'difficult' boys. His father used to tell him how much he was hurting him, watching him behave the way he did.
No way.
The boy went his own road.
Sometimes I wonder if there's anything that can be done and the answer I gave myself was: you cannot change even a very young person if he / she likes himself just the way it is.
So prepare to say bye to that house and take care of yourself and your well being
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