This clinic you go to, is it the only place near you that offers help? Do you not have easy access to other care facilities?

It sounds like she isn't a primary T, maybe just a fill in? If she can not be available to you, you really need to find another T. It sounds like you are dealing with issues that need constant attention, like battling depression and loneliness. And no, I don't think she is excepting you to learn how to be anything on your own. It sounds to me like she just can't be available to you as much as you or even her would like.