I have read it/heard it here and there lately, from various sources that people with BPD are often attracted to or find themselves in a relationship with a narcissist. Mirroring it; the BPD person is said to be an easy target the narcissist can prey on.

I would be interested in your thoughts and some potential resources.

The thing is... I have become very suspicious that some of my partners whom I saw as solid, loving and caring people might have been narcissists, who NEEDED my ultimate adoration yet didn't hesitate to heartlessly cut me off with no mercy, no empathy whatsoever, the very second I became unable to feed their ego.

Any thoughts?