For the past 6 months, my wife and I have been living apart, during the week, due to my job, more or less. For the past 3 months or so, our relationship had been going really sour. I feel like I'm constantly under her thumb. She tracks me on her phone, she's constantly asking me what I'm doing, and because I've been letting her get away with it, I've basically got to ask her if I can come and go. It's really just pathetic. I'm finally tired of it. When I'm gone she drives me nuts, but I love her, so I miss her. When I'm home, I can only stand her in doses. We still have sex sometimes, I'm not sure why. I can't remember the last time I had received any unsolicited afftection aside from her

We got married pretty early, I was 21 and she was 20. I had joined the military a couple years before that and she had never been away from home. I was a hellraiser as a teen and she grew up going to church every sunday. I guess the writing was on the wall from the beginning. Of course I hadn't taken everyone's advice and waited on marrying her and I feel like I'm paying for it now. All of this would be so easy to correct if it weren't for my 15 month old daughter who I'm crazy about. I'm about to move from California to Texas and I'm about to lose my mind because I can't make it up about what I want and need to do. I could do without seeing her for quite some time, my daughter on the other hand, not so much...