I believe too that there is some emotional reason for this on account of she calls him a pervert for wanting to give her a kiss.
But I hear you on the medicine causing you to not want to have sex or feeling a want for it. I know the antidepressants have played hell with me off and on. The worst had to be Paxil. I could not feel a thing on it.
We kind of go through spells where we have a lot of sex, and spells we don't have sex for a month or more. Since I have had to take pain pills, I don't really feel like it much.
I like to have sex with my husband, so we can have a close and loving time. As far as the actual sex, a lot of times when I have been on antidepressants, I would just as soon not, because then, I will have to go and shower.
I do think this Cymbalta, which I have been on for a couple months now, makes me not have as much troubles as other antidepressants have.
If she is on some medicine, I can sure understand her not feeling real into it. But I don't know why she doesn't want him to love on her at all. Maybe just she figures then he will want sex and she doesn't want to bother with it.
Maybe it hurts for some reason.