I used to feel very uncomfortable sharing our family/cultural heritage. There are so many negative thoughts, jokes and stereotypes associated with it...and a long history of trying to wipe it out completely. I had two totally different sets of social circles as a result. Now, I just accept it is a part of who I am and our family history. I am proud of many things our people have accomplished and hold it close to my heart - and yet at the same time, out of fear for my safety I keep it on the dl. If that makes sense.