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Jun 08, 2013, 12:40 AM
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Member Since: Aug 2011
Location: Washington State, U.S.A.
Posts: 3,169
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Well, I guess I could think of a few things:
1. I've had some pretty "turbulent" relationships, including friendships and family relations.
2. I get really anxious about people leaving me, but I have no problem with dumping people (friends or otherwise) at the drop of a hat--simply because they are no longer conveniant.
3. I do tend to see things as black and white--if someone is upset with me, I think they hate me for life; its hard for me to realize that they can still love me even if they're mad at me. (One time I got into an argument with a friend of mine, and we were pretty mad at each other for a while. Even while she was still mad at me, she did tell me that she still cared about me and said, "If you can't be mad at your friends, who can you mad at?" I still thought she hated me for life--but later she told me still wanted to be friends and could we please make up/  )
4. I've gotten myself into some pretty risky behaviors, such as heavy drinking, heavy smoking (up to 5 pax a day b4 I quit), promisicuous sex, etc. I still have a bad habit of getting myself into debt.
The list could go on, but I'll stop there.
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