I guess... my recommendation would be the Church. Unfortunately it's harder to find than it should be, however that's a large part of what the Church is supposed to do... I don't know of any other place. Except maybe through transference with a T? But I don't know much about that. But while I was away from home a year there were a couple Christian men who were like fathers to me... it was really helpful to have them there for me with all the junk I was facing. I hope you find someone/someone finds you like that soon.