Are you still in the military? Why do you have to move? Have you asked your wife to move too?

What about marriage counseling ? Don't you think you owe it to your marriage to give it a try? Marriage counseling can help show HER what she's doing wrong, as well as show YOU what you're doing wrong. It takes two to ruin a marriage, not just one. So I'm sure the therapist can try to get you two back on track, if you both are WILLING. But if you think it's too far gone, and the feelings are gone too, then there isn't much use. I just think it's a tragedy when a child has to grow up without their daddy. It breaks my heart, and this country is FAMOUS for that. I don't think there's another country in the world with a higher divorce rate than the U.S. plus we have the unwed parents too who split and leave the children fatherless. It's pathetic -- these kids deserve better. They surely didn't ASK to be born.

I wish I knew what to tell you. The MOST IMPORTANT thing in this whole mess is your DAUGHTER --- and she's the one who's going to suffer for this. And she's innocent, so I really don't know what to tell you. I wish you two could grow up and try to make it work with marriage counseling. But that's up to you , my friend. I wish you the very best!!! I don't mean to sound harsh -- I really don't. It's just that I feel for these children -- my granddaughter's parents split, and she's 17 now and they split when she was 7 yrs old. She's STILL having trouble with it, and is in therapy. You have no idea how it effects chidren. God bless you and please take care. Hugs, Lee