Thanks for the response (and hugs!)

I guess I understand them not wanting to bring it up if they didn't think the client was thinking about it, but its my understanding that its very important to ask these questions and not miss someone who's really going to hurt themselves? I just have been feeling my distress has been not noticed or ignored, and even when I'm in there bawling and emotional and clearly in crisis we don't make a plan for what to do until I next see T. I often leave feeling lost and alone, like I need more help and its not being offered (though T does give phone # and always calls back if you contact and ask, so that is good).

I am going to look into CBT options, I feel I need more structure and support. But I don't know how to go about leaving especially because its not a really bad relationship, I actually feel quite attached to T which is making me feel even worse that I am suddenly feeling not heard. But my general attachment to her over the past years is making me feel so guilty for this, but I'm just feeling that I need to be with someone who takes more action in crisis times since this was a horrible experience for me. But I feel guilty and scared even thinking about leaving!

Any other thoughts?

Thanks so much