I think that anytime you have expectations about what your therapist should be asking you or anything else you expect that they should do or say, you should voice this. It is your therapy, and if you want something from your therapist, you need to ask. You might not get it, and then you can decide if you need to move on and find it elsewhere. But the discussions I have had over the years with my various T's about what I want have been among the most enlightening and healing. It is your therapy. You have to take responsibility and speak up about what you think should be happening.