I just think that there are "professional loon magnets"... People who repeatedly end up with BPD partners... it IS a fact...
There's GOT to be a reason!
I don't think that we are some sort of a disease on the world - some people do choose us because we are brilliant and loving and easy to please and able to adore someone to the extent a non-BPD person isn't capable of.

My suggestion is that we might be a natural match for a narcissists...?

Please note... I believe that whatever crap (personality traits) we carry we are all ABLE to learn to develop proper, satisfying, devoted relationships.