Hello:

I am 22 and i have been dating my girlfriend for 2 months now and she is 20. We are both in college and we are both in the greek system. We met and began talking and hit it off pretty well. We ended up having sex pretty early in our relationship and a couple days later she told me she had something she had to tell me. She had infact slept with my big numerous times and she told me it was all casual sex. She has also slept with a nother member of my fraternity. And she has slept with 4 brothers from her brother fraternity and she continues to hang out and drink with them all the time. She has told me that she has had 30 sexual partners where as i have only had 9. She tells me i give her the best sex that she has ever had but it is proving difficult to move past her past. Also when i talked to her about her continuing to hang out and drink with people she has already had sex with, she tells me that i have to trust her that nothing is going to happen between them. She has also had sex with her best guy friend that she texts daily.

Am i wrong for feeling somewhat selfconcious about all this? Am i wrong for her continuing to communicate often with people she has had sexual relationships with?

She says that the majority of her partners were one night stands how am i to deal with that when she still lives the kind of lifestyle where that is a possibility?

She has told me that she loves me but i don't know if i can fully commit to a woman with this kind of past. I want to love her i really do but she refuses to give up hanging out with these guys because they are her "brothers"

I would like any advice on the situation.

Please Help.