I only call it "unsafe" because I'm "protecting" myself and a baby from an unwanted pregnancy by practicing "safe sex".

I guess the no BC option befuddles me because I'm a control freak I believe I have the right to have a say in everything that affects me, and having babies spontaneously would definitly affect me But thats just me, I can't speak for others, same with the method of BC I choose. I choose it specifically because I refuse to be inconvenienced by a menstrual cycle. I hated having it, and honestly thank God I'm rid of it None of my friends agree with me on that one, but to each his own