I have a new T, who based on things I have told him, has concerns about things old T did. But he's never said anything in a snarky way. He is compassionate about her, but not in a way that takes away any support he has for me. That's good, because I don't have to worry about being mean and turning a colleague against another colleague. It's actually kind of freeing.
What you talk about sounds like being caught between two divorcing parents who try to bring the kid into things to help the parent feel better - when it should be about what does the kid need to feel better.
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