Well, I talked to my therapist today, and he put it in a little different perspective. Instead of "too good to be true," it is more that I have very low self esteem when it comes to relationships.

Last night for example. Everything is fine. She'd been running on lack of sleep, had drank some wine, and instead of us having sex which is what we were planning, she fell asleep.

In my past marriage, waking her up would NOT be a good thing, and would lead to a fight. So, i'm lying there, and my mind starts snowballing, what does this mean? Just brought me back to those type of thoughts.

I ended up sleeping on the couch, and had decided to just let her make all the moves in our relationship so I wouldn't have to deal with the rejection. All that from simply falling asleep.

Seems stupid now, but perfectly logical at the time. This morning, she said well just wake me up, because i'm up for it any time.

It just brought me back to my self doubt, self esteem issue, and actual resentment that was actually coming from my last relationship.

I need to work on realizing that I am worth it to her, that it was simply a miscommunication, and not make things bigger than they are.

So now, i'm at work freaking out that this is the end of our relationship, which is completely illogical.

I think I just need to let her know where i'm coming from, let her know that it was NOTHING she did wrong, it was simply a "button" that triggers my low self esteem, and see if she's willing to stick it out with me while I try to somehow fix my esteem issues.

Relationships are tough for me, and are probably the main trigger of any self esteem issues.

Doesn't help that she outclasses me in every way!

Sorry for the rambling, and possible TMI!