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ive felt that way with a guy before--- but, to me- this sounds like more of something that is an issue within her and it wouldn't matter if it was you or some other guy...she would still 'hold back'... I bet if you focused less on the issue and more on gaining her trust and treating her the way her ex didn't ... things would soon begin to change.. idk how long it will take to change though? cus I mean investing more than 10 years in another relationship is hard to come by. hope you figure this all out!
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Maya Angelou.
so sing. Jazz, sing. --jazzy123456
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