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Originally Posted by jazzy123456
ive felt that way with a guy before--- but, to me- this sounds like more of something that is an issue within her and it wouldn't matter if it was you or some other guy...she would still 'hold back'... I bet if you focused less on the issue and more on gaining her trust and treating her the way her ex didn't ... things would soon begin to change.. idk how long it will take to change though? cus I mean investing more than 10 years in another relationship is hard to come by. hope you figure this all out!
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Thanks Jazzy. I think you're right... I really need to convince her that she's 'safe' with me and that she's not going to be emotionally, mentally or verbally abused like she was by him for over a decade. I do realize, though, that I have my work cut out for me.
If you don't mind me asking - you said you've felt that way with a guy in the past - I assume you meant the feeling of it being too emotionally overwhelming to be able to kiss him (?)...were you able to figure out why you had felt that way?