It all depends on the person I guess. At times I couldnt find anyone to talk with. Then I found someone who listened really well, but didnt really throw in his thoughts too much, just listened. He said it seemed to him that I was the one who needed to say a lot about it and he chose silence. Then there were times I had groups of people listening, because they wanted to, because it was interesting. Those were cool times. I think you have to go forth and take a chance and talk when the spirit moves you but also be sensitive to others interest about what youre saying. Sometimes people are silent because they're thinking, or listening, and sometimes Ive thought they were about to smash me in the face, so, just having a sense of what interests them gives you a better idea how far to take things I think. Its hard for me cause Im a natural arguer and learning when to be silent is a lesson worth learning too I think. Im not saying you should be silent, just myself sometimes.