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Originally Posted by Deborah35
I love my cat and all, but I think a pet is still just a pet. I still want to have a life. I take good care of him, he's as healthy as ever, like I stated before. I was saying I'd like a real human to be with. My cat greets me all the time when I'm out and then come home. In the morning, he sleeps right next to me, climbs all over me as to say "wake up". Yes, I do hear about how pets can cheer you up.
What do you mean, no special time? I do spend enough time with my cat if that's what you mean. Don't assume I've read it, when I never even heard of that book. Most of the posts on my cope with being single, people were saying why they love being single, that's not what I asked. I was asking what they don't like about it. If you're happy with it, then great. Just don't expect everyone to be. That's all I'm saying.
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OK, so you do have lots of special time with him, but still want to have close bonds with humans - that is totally fair.
I am surprised a person who has grown up in an English speaking country has not heard of Kipling, but if that is the case with you, you are in for lots of pleasant surprises and discoveries - just start reading.