Outsiders are anyone but family that means no new relationships,friends that are deceiving to me,basically I am building my support group with family first.I can have support groups as well.Than later when I get better that I can handle friendships and relationships emotionally the outsiders will be let in within my boundaries and if they do not respect my boundaries then they can go nicely or if they are jerks I will be able to handle them if they go out in rage.It is to protect my fragile emotions and keep recovering in positives only till future notice lol.